Sunday, June 19, 2022

The Failure Disease.

 People- As You THINK Yourself to SUCCESS !!


Go deep into your study of people. you will discover Unsuccessful people suffer from mind-deadening issues called "Negative Thoughts". Every failure has this disease in its advanced form.And most "average" persons have at least a mild form of  "Negative Thoughts"

You will discover that Negative Thoughts or Negative Mindsets explains the difference between the person who is going places and the person who barely achieves.

What does the Negative Thought trigger?

You will notice, eldest baby of Negative thoughts is "EXCUSES". And not just one or two but a series of Excuses - Why it cannot be done? How it is going to fail? Who all believe that this is impossible? and so on...

Study the lives of successful people and you will find - No Excuses at all.

I have not been able to come across or heard of any highly successful executive, military person, salesman, professional or any leader in his field who could not have found one or many excuses to hide behind.
  • Roosevelt could have hidden behind his lifeless legs.
  • Truman could have used "No College Education."
  • Nelson Mandela was in jail for many decades
  • Narendra Modi comes from a very humble background.
Like any disease, habit of giving Excuses keep becoming worse if not identified and corrected and treated properly.

Four Most Common forms of Excuses and their TREATMENTS:

  1. I have Health Issues.
    • Refuse to talk about your health.
    • Refuse to worry about your health.
    • Be genuinely grateful that your health is goo, as it is.
    • Remind yourself often - It is better to ear out than to rust out.
  2. I'm not intelligent Enough.
    • Never under-estimate your own intelligence, and never over-estimate other's intelligence.
    • Remind yourself daily - "Attitudes are more important than intelligence."
    • Remember - Ability to think is of more importance than ability to memorize.
  3. I'm too young or too old.
    •  Look at your current age positively. Practice looking forward to new horizons and create the enthusiasm within.
    • Compute how much productive time you ave left
    • Invest your future time in doing what you really want to do. Practice - "I'm going to start now and my best years are ahead of me.
  4. My Luck is always Bad.
    • Accept the Law of Cause & Effect
    • Don't be a Wishful thinker.
    • Don't waste your mental muscles, mulling and strategising on effortless ways to win and be rich.
We come with One Life and Limited time. What we do with it depends on how we manage our mindset. Either we decide to waste our life making Excuses or We decide to make something of it

We decide for ourselves...

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